Today is the 41st day of The Omer “Yesod ShebeYedod”, “Bonding in Bonding”. To be able to bond with someone else completely we have to first get rid of our ego and be able to see life from the others perspective and understand them completely. When our sole interest is the other and “because he or she is my husband/wife/child/friend,etc..” I Love him/her. The person takes precedence to love, love is just the feeling generated by your need to express the importance of the other, and when this is achievable then there is Yesod ShebeYesod!
